Forming unions

Marriage in both urban and rural areas is conceptualized as a condition of social adulthood and as an alliance between households, and not only a bond between individuals. Marriages are formed in ritualized stages, which can take place over years. The first, söz kesmek, a promise ceremony, is an informal agreement that is followed by a more tightly drawn nişan or engagement. A civil marriage or resmi nikahı follows. In villages, a düğün or wedding feast consists of two separate celebrations, involvi…